The three types of self-care

Self-care seems obvious, yet it's so often overlooked, especially when we're caring for others. Every act of self-care is an expression of self-love.

What are the three types of self-care?

Simple answer

Routine, indulgent and responsive.

Deeper understanding

  1. Routine self-care

    Daily, consistent activities that nurture your physical, mental and emotional health: hygiene, nutrition, movement, meditation, financial planning, crafts and passion projects like gardening, writing or cooking.

  2. Indulgent self-care

    Less frequent experiences that bring a tremendous amount of joy and give you something to look forward to: amazing food, memorable adventures, spa days, travel to the places you love.

  3. Responsive self-care

    How you care for yourself when something feels hard or unsettling. Often the hardest to practice, it's about healing and growing rather than masking pain, so you can be a source of stability for yourself and others.

Reflect

When was the last time you did something just for you? What did you do, and how did it feel? Choose one routine, one indulgent and one responsive practice to plan for this week.

Self-care can include many approaches, from therapy and support groups to movement, breathwork and creative expression. Explore what works for you, alongside the qualified professionals you choose.

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